Poem by Mrs. F. W. Doane - Second Coe Family Reunion
We have come from far and near to-day
To have a happy cozy time,
And in a free coequal way
To make the hours melodious chime
Yes! We are all co-ordinate
United all in heart and hand,
Not as a coterie of friends we come
But as kindred bound by dearest ties,
Back we come to the dear old home
Where sweetest memories arise.
Surely it is a pleasant sight to see
These generations gathered here.
How proud ear Grandmamma must be
Of all her numerous offspring dear,
And how her mind must fondly dream
Of all the busy years gone by,
How strange to her it all must seem
When such a gathering meets her eye.
Her many years have come and gone…
Each burdened with some dole of care,
Year after year still hurrying on
Its stent of love, and toil and pain to-bear
And grandmamma looks back to-day
On seeing all these loved ones here…
And walks once more along the way
Whose every landmark stands out clear
She sees herself a bonnie bride…
A bonnie bride of long ago,
With loving husband by her side
So strong to meet life’s toil and woe.
When life took on the fairest guise
That sweet young life can ever know,
When earth a while seemed Paradise.
To hearts with earnest-love aglow.
From that sweet hour, adown the years
How swift the changing scenes pass on,
A rush of hopes, of joys and fears
A moment seen, a moment gone.
No doubt too far they often went
And did just what they should not do
Like other boys, on mischief bent,
Full many a boyish trick they knew.
We may be sure that they might tell
Of many a jolly escapade,
And calamities which on them fell
When of their plotting were betrayed.
Or have they forgotten in Manhood's prime,
The training rods, or slippers plastic,
Which, brought in use at proper time
Make boys both pious and gymnastic?
Have they cut down the well known tree
Which furnished sprouts so tough and limber
Or do they let it live that it may be
For boys to come, correction timber?
But grandma’s boys are boys no more,
They, too, are on life’s shady side
They feel their most vigorous days are o’er,
Although they may not own it in their pride.
And grandmamma has had full share
Of trials and of bitter pain,
And year by year a web of care
Across her path of life has lain.
But now she has her “Harvest home”
Of fondly loving hearts and true,
To her as recompense they come
And thus life’s better part renew.
Children an grandchildren around her stand
To give her reverent greeting
And great-grandchildren too increase the bond
The links of joy completing.
What memories to her mind must rise
To fill the measures of this day,
How near the past this present lies
In varied, yet commingling way.
She sees her boys to-day as stalwart men,
Barb-thinks, perhaps, of all their early ways,
Of all the pranks they cut-up then,
In boyhoods ever happiest days.
But all the marks of time and care
No thought of skill can ever hide.
Dame nature has advantage there,
And by her laws we must abide.
But in our children’s lives our joys renew;
They keep us young in thought, if not in frame,
And in their looks and ways we often view
Far more than mere inheritance of name;
And so to-day we look from face to face
And see full many a likeness shone;
The sire or mother in the child we trace
And Nature’s skill to copy own.
These little girls in their happy play
Some thought to Grandmamma must bring
Of one she fondled with a mother’s ways
To her life’s sweetest fairest thing.
A charming little singing bird,
That to the mothers home nest came,
And made the sweetest music ever heard
In notes which love and trust proclaim.
They called the birdie Phebe, and her song
Made music for each loving heart,
E’en melody for which fond lovers long,
And ever seek with captivating art,
And so in
time there came a Page,
Dressed up in all his Sunday clothes,
And stole sweet Phoebe for his cage.
To charm away his cares and woes.
But blessings come in varied guise
And that young Page confirmed the saying trite
For he has proved a husband man most wise
Who for the future plans aright,
And by his Culture the family tree
Has added branches strong and fair,
Which every one can plainly see
A good and wholesome fruitage bear
And other branches of the goodly tree
Are also in a thrifty way,
Indeed, no danger can there be
That stock like this will soon decay,
And as the coming years an increase bring.
May each addition honor well the name,
Nor ever cause one blush of shame.
And may the co-inheritance
Cohere as
long as time shall last,
Its cohorts never meet mischance,
But so-operate where ‘ere life’s lines are cast.
And then the race will never fail
But strong in coalition stand,
Its virtues every where prevail
Its name be honored through the land.
Pray do not treat as only jokes
These terms your rhymer dares to rise
In strong thus to slyly coax.
A leggard and cogrietting muse,
For really there is honest thought in every line
And only this to cause regret,
That more capacious brains than mine
Did not these thoughts to better jingle get.
But time goes on and this must end
Before you weary of the strain.
And wish my Pegasus its gait would mend
And take a galloping refrain.
And so I’ll gradually coerce
My dull antigraiated steed
Into a different style of verse
More suited to the present need
No doubt you all have well enjoyed
The many pleasures of to-day
For “Where there is a Will” employed
There “always is a way”.
And all these
jovial Henrys
Have helped to make a happy time
Though with this word of Henry
‘Tis hard to find a word to rhyme.
And they who
bear the name of John
With all the Eddies which around us run
Have each a pleasure garment on,
And as the boys say, are having “Lots of fun”
And we are very Frank to say
We Don’t mind it if they do,
They have the privilege to-day
Their jovial plans to carry through.
And while around the house they stray
A little caution should be shown,
And sign like this we might display,
“Be careful of the corner Stone”
And when you hear the sweet Mabel,
O wander not too far away,
For all this gladness seems to tell
That Beulah fair is near to-day
The very air
is full of Grace
We feel that influence every where,
And smiles which rest on every face
Proclaim the banishment of care,
And now in mercy to you all
I’ll close this ever rambling strain
Which, much I fear, you’ll justly call
The creaking's of a cranky brain.